We talk about the bad boyfriends, the crazy girlfriends, the people that damage our egos or make us the insecure people we are today. But we don’t call them out on what they really are.
The word is sociopath. They are scary, hurtful, handsome, beautiful, kind, caring, destructive, manipulative, over-protective, demeaning and so on. The devil is handsome, they say. Well, sociopaths can be too. They can be well-hidden, living completely normal lives and having normal relationships, at least that you know of. Believe me when I tell you, I’ve crawled on my hands and knees through hell with a few of them. I have the scars to prove it.
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It all begins when we’re young, doesn’t it? When we’re too young to know what love is and the times where respect is limited. Some of us come from divorced parents who skew our outlook on love and relationships and others just want to find the love they see in their homes every day. We fall for the older, handsome boy or the beautiful, popular girl and we think we’ve hit the jackpot.
We think we have found someone, at this ripe, young age, that will love and care for us forever. What a twisted joke in the circle of life, am I right? Adults call us naive at the time and our hurt is just something we face with the age. I don’t think that is true. Not everyone gets tangled up in a downward spiral of an abusive relationship.
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I could have written this myself, word for word... I used to tell him that he was an aggressive narcissist - he would laugh in my face but now he's since had extensive testing done and he actually IS!
I only actually realised recently that I have lasting damage and it's something I definitely need to work on because to this day, if a man looks me in the eyes & asks me to be intimate I still really really struggle to say no & the fear & anxiety in that moment is so great I feel like I did all those years ago - I literally only realised that yesterday!
I do know I am 100% stronger for what I went through and am not sorry it happened because I am who I am today because of it - thank you for sharing