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"If you’re seeing this ad, this is meant for you. I don't see it being over between you. I have a message for you about how to get him back."
That was the video message beaming out from *Sarah's phone when she opened Instagram on Monday morning.
It was an ad for a psychic specialising in relationship issues — catered to women who wanted answers to fill the void left by men who performed that favourite magic trick of modern dating: ghosting.
"For the past 12 hours, I'd sent a flurry of texts and messages to friends about the fact that the day before, a guy I'd been seeing for a few weeks had dropped off the face of the planet," Sarah explained.
"So of course, the first thing waiting for me when I opened my phone the next morning was a message that seemed so specifically created for me that it took all of my willpower to resist clicking on it and finding out what this psychic had to say about my situation."
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But it didn't end there.