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lisaskeeter August 10, 2025

Omg. My mother. 

She constantly tried to drive me and my sisters apart, and now I realise it was about control. She has all the other traits too. 

lisaskeeter May 8, 2025

I hope you wear them all again. I'm jealous that I can't.

Also, I LOVE THAT MOVIE!

lisaskeeter February 27, 2025

Go and watch the Friends Pilot. Hey watch the Mindy Project Pilot. They're   always clunky. They have to establish character, back story and set an agenda in 22 minutes (usually) 

I love this one. 

lisaskeeter February 10, 2025

These verbal operants as defined by B.F. Skinner are called "Autoclytics" as they affect the behaviour of the listener relative to the speaker. For autistic people they can be completely perplexing as we prefer direct communication with a clear request or comment. If you are speaking English as a second language, it also makes it much harder. 

And if you are an Australian autistic living in Ireland, it's mystifying.  (24 years and I still can't tell what they mean) 

lisaskeeter February 2, 2025

I cannot believe that it is not possible to legislate against paparazzi stalking. Having a bunch of men follow you around with cameras, then sell the footage. 

lisaskeeter January 8, 2025

As a full time carer to two disabled adult kids I rely on Facebook groups for my social connections. Being able to vent, make a joke or share a moment makes me feel like I exist. I recently shared a screenshot from my 25 year old autistic daughter's iPad where she had googled Benita from Playschool. She was nostalgic! The likes and comments got me through a really tough Christmas. There is light in our shared memories and love for elder Gen Xs favourite presenters. 

So where do I go now? 

I don't want to be complicit in what could be the beginning of a Goebbles style propaganda campaign against already vulnerable people. 
Can our favourite podcast communities host their own chat rooms? 


lisaskeeter September 1, 2024

Firstly big hug. Been there with Peri-weight. I would put my handbag down, take out my hoop earrings and tie my hair back to defend you against that little B. 

Secondly, when you are full of raging hormones there is this compulsion to find the thing and often the thing is completely unnecessary jeans or swimsuit shopping in an urban mall. And you don't know how you got there.
I don't know what aspect of evolution leads us to crying in brightly lit changerooms as we struggle to get out of a cross back bikini top but it does.
Try to CBT yourself out of there, get a really good coffee or fancy tea, buy the best muffin and then look at homewares on your phone. Homewares that you can leave in the box and return when the feeling passes.
xx 

lisaskeeter July 13, 2024

Agree with Hannah. I have super thick hair (even in peri it has become just "normal") and the Dyson Airwrap has saved it. I watch tv with subtitles while I dry my hair with the brush. Also had it since 2018. 

lisaskeeter May 20, 2024

This is what was missing from the mainstream news articles. 

lisaskeeter May 15, 2024

As everyone in Dublin could have told them, this is what you get for placing it on the North of the Liffey. 


lisaskeeter May 2, 2024

" I was calm, you're making me not calm"


A bear wouldn't blame you for pointing out a health issue. 


Also, Flashing or indecent exposure has been ilegal for a while. Why not dick pics? 

lisaskeeter April 27, 2024

Thank you. 

I have to use two hands to put on eye makeup, one to hold up the hood! 
Do you have a better photo of the paradise one?

lisaskeeter April 22, 2024

I'm in Ireland now, but when I had my kids in Brisbane I practically lived in malls. Air con. Accessibility for a pram. Somewhere to pee WITH THEM. Somewhere to change a nappy and clean poop or vomit off your dress without being judged. 

A cold milkshake or a coffee while they play in the enclosed indoor playground. As they got bigger but did not develop normally, it was a safe place to bring them where they could not run across a road. And if they did break free there was someone to help me. It was where I taught my son to walk beside me, a big milestone for an active Autistic boy. 
I realise now it was also a safe place to zone out. CCTV. Security. "Nice people" who wouldn't tolerate a creep hanging around. 
Even during COVID when all but the supermarkets were closed, I used to get a coffee and a muffin and sit in the communal areas of the mall, with the other mums, pensioners and people who needed to be around others, even if we were 2 metres apart. 
I hope we can have this again. 

lisaskeeter April 13, 2024

I'm in Ireland. I woke up while this was happening and my first thought was "but that's Mia's happy place!"

Then I insta DMd everyone on the podcast to check if they were alright. (The baby!) Clare replied.
And that's how every woman who knows someone in Sydney would have felt.
Malls are our happy place. When it's too hot to go outside, or too wet or cold. When we are stressed, when you want to wander around and be distracted, zone out but still BE SAFE., then we go to the Mall. 
Hell I went to the northern beaches in December and spent the heatwave reading on the couch outside DJs at Warringah Mall. Me and the other pensioners staying cool and trying the Vietnamese rolls and sushi in the food hall. Feeling safe. 
It's our Tiffanys. And nothing bad can ever happen at Tiffanys.
Until now. 

lisaskeeter April 11, 2024

I learned in the school disco at Haddon Primary. Such White People "Dancing" - I would love to know what First Nations and people from continents where they actually dance make of it. Even better, can they try it? 

lisaskeeter March 23, 2024

I almost missed an Aer Lingus flight  to Rome after walking to the WRONG  end of the airport where  Ryanair had one taking off at the same time - after checking the gate on a big screen and reading the wrong line! 

This is the best hack ever. 

lisaskeeter March 17, 2024

Maybe when you have a son/brother who writes an international bestseller about how your respective houses manipulate the narrative; you learn to stay schtum.

lisaskeeter February 19, 2024

What is the deal with Ch7 platforming "problematic" dudes?

lisaskeeter January 31, 2024

I think the placards prove the point. I hope the sons of these parents flourish. 

lisaskeeter January 23, 2024

Too traumatic to finish reading but I hear you.

I bet my own birth mother tells everyone what terrible daughters we are, but I could fill pages with stories of her dysfunctional, abusive and neglectful actions from childhood, up until and including when I became a parent myself. 

And it took me years and 2 months of therapy to realise that I was actually a good kid (at age 50!) and it wasn't my job to fix a shitty parent.