@chersmi I’m sorry that you’ve had to go through that, but it’s so wrong to tell someone that they’re lucky for having a lifestyle they hate just because it’s what you wanted. It’s not lucky for them. Motherhood isn’t for everyone. I’m sure most, if not all of these women wish they were in your position; neither is better or worse than the other because it comes down to individual preferences. I mean this with no ill intent, but couldn’t you just adopt? You have that option, but they can’t exactly give up their children.
Where did you hear that it was Justin’s cut? Everything I’ve read states that Blake’s cut was what made it into theaters, even though his version was more highly rated.