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pippa November 25, 2025

There is another type of skin cancer not mentioned here. My husband developed a pink bubbly looking thing on his scalp. Biopsies done by the GP were inconclusive,  except that whatever it was, was 'highly malignant'. A Plastic Surgeon removed it and it was found to be a sarcoma. These cancers are malignant and spread like wildfire throughout the body. They're considered to be the most dangerous form of skin cancer, although fortunately,  not common. 


My husband had a PET Scan which luckily showed no spread, and this was followed by 20 rounds of radiation over four weeks. So our experience proves that any abnormal looking thing anywhere on the skin should be investigated immediately. 

pippa November 3, 2025

My precious, gentle granddaughter was a victim of relentless bullying in Year 8. Her two favourite things are animals, and sunsets. What made it worse for our family, is that the ringleader's parents were family friends. They refused to believe their daughter would do such a thing, despite being shown texts sent from their daughter's phone. Her father said someone else must have used her phone without her knowledge in an attempt to get her into trouble. 


Fortunately, my son and his wife were in a position to take her out of the public school and send her to an amazing private school where she's been thriving for two years now. 

While I acknowledge that social media is the means used to carry out this disgusting practice, I think the parents of bullies should be held to account. They're made aware of what their kids are doing, usually by the school, but it seems they make little attempt to control the behaviour of their child. According to school staff I've spoken to, many refuse to believe their child's a bully.

pippa October 25, 2025

In the words of the song:  'Love is lovelier the second time around.'

pippa October 23, 2025

I love reading your recap, especially your surprise at how interesting the women are. As an older woman myself, I've led a very rich and diverse life up to this point, and the care workers I now need to help me are fascinated by incidents I've experienced. 


The current saying that governs my thinking, is, 'Don't judge my story by the chapter you walked in on,'

pippa October 21, 2025

This time in five weeks, I'll be celebrating my 80th birthday. Despite having worked for a Plastic Surgeon who also did cosmetic procedures, both surgical and injectable, I've never had the slightest inclination to have something done, even when I was in a position to afford it. 


I have a few crow's feet and the good old nasolabial fold lines, but my cheeks are completely wrinkle free. I believe the most sexy thing about older women is a glow of confidence. I'm happy with my salt and pepper hair and my wrinkled neck. I've earned every one of my wrinkles and my grey hair. They're part of my story. 

pippa October 21, 2025

I have a Facebook friend who shares my love of a certain NRL team and is passionate about  dogs. Recently, she became a he, but hasn't changed his name. He is the most caring, lovely person. 


Last Sunday, it was his birthday, and I sent a birthday wish to his timeline. A huge, full page, brightly coloured meme, featuring a pretty little blonde princess with the words 'Birthday Girl' plastered all over it! When I realised what I'd done, a  split second after I sent it, I screamed in panic and hubby thought I was having a medical emergency, because I never scream. This friend ALWAYS responds to messages immediately, but I was in such a panic, I couldn't think what to do. 

Fortunately, he was out having drinks with friends, and didn't check his messages until later, by which time my brain was back in gear and I'd deleted the message in favour of something more appropriate. 

pippa August 22, 2025

Thank god I'm a cynic from birth!  At least it saved me from the horror of being in a relationship with any narcissist.  I've watched my kind, soft, sweet sister come under the sway of a narcissist. To make matters worse, she's a committed Christian, and he's convinced her that his way is god's way, so she follows blindly. 


Not only am I a cynic, I'm also an agnostic, so no prizes for guessing that he and I don't exactly get on.

pippa July 31, 2025

I can actually see merit in this. I've been retired now for some years, but when I was working in office environments where the staff did their own clearing up and washing up, the staff members who never volunteered to do the menial bits were almost invariably the laziest and most lackadaisical members of the team.

pippa July 23, 2025

I've mentally felt 28 for many, many years. I've never felt any other age. I'll be 80 in November. 

pippa July 9, 2025

The first realisation that the strong, independent person we know and love has changed irrevocably, is unbelievably painful. I went through it with both my parents and I'm now going through it again with my husband of 57 years. 

pippa June 27, 2025

The thing I find most annoying, is when I organise coffee or lunch with someone and they turn up with someone else in tow. Any chance you had of getting your friend's opinion on a personal problem, or just properly catching up, goes out the window. It's even worse when it's someone you've never met.


Secondly, what are 'bridesmaid proposal boxes'?

pippa June 25, 2025

Love Celeste! As a grumpy old woman with a pathological dislike of 'celebrities' and all they stand for, Celeste is my kinda gal!

pippa June 18, 2025

Good grief! What is wrong with people nowadays? Forever looking for things to lose their alleged minds over. 


In my final year of high school, I was selected for the debating team and told that I would be arguing in the affirmative. The topic? The White Australia Policy, which was still in operation at that time. Now, I didn't agree with the Policy, but that was beside the point. It was my job, along with the other two members of the team, to research the topic, and present the facts and the reasons for the Policy. How any of us FELT was immaterial. I know a couple on the opposing team agreed with the Policy, but again, it was their job to present the case against, regardless of their feelings. 

When I was reading this article, especially the section on the abusive phone calls, I wondered how these people think courtrooms operate. If they or a family member had a defence barrister who didn't argue passionately enough to get them acquitted, imagine the outrage! The barrister has a pretty good idea that they're guilty, but again, it's his/her job to argue possible reasons for acquittal. Do people really believe that defence barristers all take the view that all their clients are innocent? That would be no.

What this world really needs right now is a greater emphasis facts and clear, rational thought, and less determination to bully those who don't agree with them, because their feelings have been hurt. 

pippa June 17, 2025

I was diagnosed with lipodeama in 2010, when I was in a rehabilitation facility following my third spinal fusion. The doctor was Dr Helen Mackie, considered to be one of Australia's foremost experts on lipodaema and lymphoedema. I can pinpoint when it began:  the winter I was 35. Until then, the heaviest I'd ever been was 48kg. Suddenly, in three months, I gained 13kg, with no change in diet or exercise. The weight just kept piling on and for 29 years, i dieted, went to the gym, walked miles and did everything I could to lose the fat, with only temporary success. 


I hated myself and constantly wondered why my lower body was so fat while my hands were so thin and bony. Unfortunately, 15 years later, I still feel the same way about myself. Knowing the diagnoses doesn't help. The leg pain, especially at night, is almost unbearable at times. I'm too old now to have surgery, so I'll just keep wearing long pants and baggy tops year round. 

pippa May 30, 2025

When I saw the headline, the first thing that I thought of was, 'At least you have another child or other children.' In the case of a childless couple or miscarriage, it’s 'Well you can always try for another.' Nothing diminishes the lost child more than those words in my view.

pippa May 3, 2025

@ican'tthinkofone, how awful for you both. I'm so sorry this happened to you. 🥰

pippa April 21, 2025

Why, just why? Having been forced to have both knees replaced because of arthritis, I'd never willingly put myself through any form of orthopaedic surgery.  

pippa April 19, 2025

The first time I fell deeply in love, I was 19 years old. I was at Teachers' College in a country town in NSW, as was my boyfriend. I knew he had a long term girlfriend in Sydney, but he'd expressed that they'd been together since their mid teens (he was 23), and things were getting stale. I always knew about the girl in Sydney, and he told me she knew about me. He ended our relationship after four months, deciding that he owed it to the girl in Sydney to make their relationship work. This was at the end of 1965. I never forgot him, and often wondered where he was and what he was doing. 


In November 2022, I had a spinal fusion and spent two weeks in a rehab facility, where I'd been promised a private room. None were available, so I had to share. At the beginning of week two, a new patient was admitted. Almost unbelievably,  she was the 'girl in Sydney', now living in my part of the world and married to our mutual boyfriend for 55+ years. She and their four adult children knew all about me and apparently there's even a photo of me in a frame in their house. 

When he came to visit, we relived memories, but I realised that I wouldn't have been happy with him, so, after 57 years, the string was broken.

pippa April 11, 2025

I had a tennis ball size AVM on the base of my spinal cord. As a child, I used to have back pain and headaches that lasted several weeks but, because it was the 1950s, no cause was ever found. 


I was in my 40s when the AVM was found and I was referred to Sydney's Royal North Shore Hospital and a brilliant young doctor who was able to isolate the feeder vessel, which was the left Iliac artery. In a long and complex operation, he cut off the blood supply to the AVM, which gradually disappeared. This was in 1988.

Almost 40 years on, it seems so unfortunate that the incredible strides in surgery in all these years couldn't save this girl's life. May she rest in peace. 

pippa April 6, 2025

This pair was sickening at the reunion dinner party. They carried on like a pair of fools. You expect this behaviour from stupid teenagers trying to upset people they don't like with over exaggerated displays of affection. 


However, it was when Clint boasted about his beautiful big house that he lost me. He described Ryan's home as a 'horrible little one bedroom box in the western suburbs.' I don't really like Ryan that much, but he's worked hard to be able to buy his own home and I for one applaud him for that. And it's not a one bedroom home Clint, so Jacqui's obviously lied to you about that. 

I follow the sport of golf, so I find it strange that I've never heard of such a hot shot golfer as Clint holds himself up to be. The best thing about this pair getting together is that they're not inflicting themselves on any other poor bugger.