The life affirming moment of having a baby coincides with the brand new role of becoming a parent.
It’s a demanding job that many find themselves in with little or no experience and relentless on-the-job-training.
According to a new study, one in two dads are leaving it all up to the mother – but it’s not too late to turn it around.
A survey from parenting app, WOTBaby, found that 52.2 per cent of Australian dads had minimal to no involvement in early weeks of a newborn’s life.
WOTBaby founder and parenting expert, Jen Hamilton, says many fathers don't know how to get involved.
"Fathers can feel quite left out in the beginning and it’s really important to support mum, but with breastfeeding and the whole focus is on Mum, fathers can feel a bit unsure or uneasy," she said.
The mother-of-three, who developed an app to help "empower and guide" parents, says it's vital that fathers bond with the baby early on.
"A great way for dads to get involved from the beginning is just like mums with skin-to-skin contact and that bonding time with baby, right from the beginning.
"When mothers and babies are bonding in the beginning with that skin-to-skin contact there is a hormone released which is called oxytocin which we called the bonding hormone and it can happen between dad and baby just as much as mum," said Hamilton.
"So, it is really important that dads are aware of that and have that skin-to-skin contact so lots of cuddles from the beginning," she added.
The parenting expert says there are plenty of ways fathers can get involved in the early days.
Top Comments
Just wondering.....does anyone else think it's appropriate that women do most of the newborn parenting?
It makes complete biological sense.
Sure if Dad's want to help out of tired mama's need them to- it's a families choice. But saying that a man should be more involved is political, not scientific.
I wonder how much of this has to do with simply cost of living. The unfortunate reality is that often both parents can't afford to be off work for long periods of time while they have a small child, so it is often the father that goes back to work rather than get to spend time with their newborn child.