Thank you for this very funny and heart-strings tugger of an article. I am so sorry for your loss, I feel that pain 43 and pregnant and wondering if this is possible - about to start in the career i've spent years studying for... I finish in October, it's September, it's been about 4 years of study to get here and now I am pregnant. Two older kids... I guess my chances of miscarriage are high too... It's odd to feel absurdly delighted and mortified all at once.