Whoah... that's a lot. Man, or woman. It's unfair to blame the friend for your drinking, eating disorder, etc and making a choice of what is too much to handle. How YOU reacted is on you and the fact you are putting the blame on them makes me wonder if you might want to be assessed for borderline personality disorder. I hate you feel bad. Sorry you had so many problems and you were hurt. It doesn't sound like you really know how to be a good friend though (or at least didn't). I suspect this is a snarky clap back hoping the author's article would somehow get to the ex-friend. I see no value in this content otherwise.