Oh my goodness I could’ve written this. The constant guilt of too much screen time and wanting to make an effort to enrich their lives vs just letting them have free rein on the tech so I can chill (or let’s face it - do chores) is the source of constant conflict at home and guilt for me. Holding the line all the time is hard and exhausting. But I’m the same - I don’t feel like I’m a good mum at all and feel like I fail them all the time.