It's possible that you've missed the point about domination/submission.First off. it has to be your mind that's dominated first, not your body. If a 'Master' can't do that, then he's just play acting, and playing tie-up gamesLooking at it from the M/f point of view, you, the submissive must ultimately want the trappings of 'domination' more than he does---if only minutely. Weird?Not really.If he's constantly chasing or persuading you, then you are in control---and will always be frustrated, because that isn't what you want, is it?The Dom will always---always--care about what happens to you more than himself. Be very aware of that one, it's critical. There is absolutely no place for selfishness in kink, There really isn't. Domination is about love care and understanding.The sub can go off into multi multi orgasms, and even hurt herself if her 'dom' isn't aware of where she's headed. My submissive goes out of her mind and eventually passes out (her mind just shuts down). After that, she needs care, not more sex.When you enter a state of 'submission' to your chosen man (and don't forget--you do the choosing), you will climax if he tells you to, That's when it gets really mind blowing.