I would rather focus on what suits my body type, and not what's in fashion.
Caitie - you could have written this story about me. My reasons for being fat are different, but still result from a trauma. The thing is, since deciding several years ago to stop dieting and punishing my body (after many, many years) my weight has stabilised. I now work WITH my body and not constantly against. I also absolutely refuse to be fat-shamed and have learned to ignore anyone who tries - fewer people try when you just ignore them.