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lizlejohnson February 17, 2024

Is there still somewhere to donate to her children ? 

lizlejohnson November 27, 2022

This article resonates so much for me! Whilst we didn’t actively have a no children rule I did mention it was our preference for the wedding. Mainly driven by the winery venue (not so child friendly) and cost of additional guests. A few guests said it wasn’t possible to attend so we did make exceptions as it wasn’t an explicit rule. That said looking back I wish I’d been more inclusive for friends and family with children. At least more understanding that the perspective of a parent. 

I have two weddings approaching next year, both close family and children not invited. Balancing the want to attend with arranging babysitting (both regional 4/5 hours from where we live, so not entirely sure how Id locate a babysitter or pay my normal babysitter to come along) I’m very sure well not be able to attend.
Totally understand this authors sentiment and then those who’d prefer child free events. 

lizlejohnson September 17, 2022

Such a tough situation, and I’ve had a few friends in this exact decision point years ago. Some stayed others left, with each scenario so unique. I have two dear friends who chose to stay and do not have the children they dearly wanted and the anger is very real. 

I think listening to your partner and respecting his choice is so important, and with that information making the decision that is right for you. Holding onto hope he may one day change his mind or decide to enter into parenthood for you seems a mix of complications.

lizlejohnson March 31, 2022

Hoping she is okay and surrounded by support. The public response and loss of a job doesn’t feel right at all.